“I resolve to lose weight!”
“I'm going to finally get in shape!”
Sounds good! What's the problem? Both of these resolutions are vague - would losing one pound be enough? Five? Ten? And what’s “in shape” mean? Ripped to shreds? Huge muscles? Just overall healthy?
Ok. Then how about this?
“I’m going to lose 50lbs”
Well, the end goal is very clear. But is it realistic? If this person loses 20lbs, would it be a failure? 20lbs is great! But 20lbs isn't 50. That’s another major problem with many resolutions: they’re overzealous. It’s like wanting to be President - sure you can do it, but you're likely to fall short.
So what makes a good resolution?
Make it reasonable.
Don’t make a resolution that’s bold or extraordinary. You can always add more to it, so don’t bite off more than you can chew. Success with smaller goals will empower you to take on more.
Make a plan.
Don’t be vague about the main goal. Quantify it if you can. Identify specific mini-goals you’ll need to achieve on the way to your main goal. Then identify specific actions to accomplish those mini-goals.
Make it a priority.
Set it at the top of your list and don’t compromise. If you had a critical job interview or a killer trip planned, you wouldn't let anything stop you. Once you get into a routine, it'll be easier to keep things going.
Example:
Goal: I want to lose 20lbs total this year.
The plan: Try to lose 2lbs each month, knowing I might not make it some months (and I might not be able to keep up that rate as I’ll lose more easily at first and less quickly as more weight comes off)
Mini-goal #1: Resistance training interspersed with cardio drills 3 times a week for 45 minutes.
Actions for #1: Hire a personal trainer to teach me what exercises to do. Eat a handful of almonds after work and exercise as soon as I’m changed and set up. Pre-pick my playlist and don’t touch my phone for the workout. Do this Mon, Wed & Thurs.
Mini-goal #2: Reduce my overall daily calorie intake without feeling deprived.
Actions for #2: Cut out the unnecessary heavy-hitters first: sugary, whipped cream covered latte, weekend margaritas, evening covid piece of candy. Hire a nutritional coach to figure out how to substitute better food choices. Find healthy treats so I can reward myself without getting completely derailed.
Mini-goal #3: Do an hour of something active each weekend.
Action for #3: Share with friends that I'm doing this and plan ahead to do these things with them. Make concrete plans.
If your resolution is important to you, take the time to map out a plan. Success takes effort. If it were easy, everyone would be fit and healthy. A year from now, when you look back, will you be grateful for the progress you made or left with regrets? That’s up to you, and it all starts with making smarter resolutions.
Good luck!